Thursday, 4 January 2018

失恋,如何治疗?

失恋,如何治疗?
时间是最好的解药,没有人能够告诉你到底需要多久的时间才能痊愈。不要去查看对方的讯息,也不要尝试去寻找她的踪迹,因为失恋就像在胸口上划一刀,当你尝试去查看对方的讯息的时候,不就像是在已经受伤的伤口上画上新的伤痕。可能原本只需要一年的时间就能复原的伤痕变得需要更久的时间。
你念念不忘,她是不会想起你的! 她是不会在乎你!她也不会理会你是否能从情伤走出来,她从来都没有在乎你,所以你觉得值得吗?
觉得痛不欲生?让眼泪流一流,让泪水彻底被抽干,甚至连脑海里的泪水也让它彻彻底底的抽干吧,也许那时自己也就清醒了。那时你可能就会明白,为了一个不喜欢你的人,伤心😭成这样,值得吗?

无论你是想走出来,还是不想走出来,这段日子都会过去的,一定会过去的~

Tuesday, 2 January 2018

想念会使人疯狂

也许我迟早会疯掉,因为如此疯狂的想念一个人。
想念是多么可怕的一件事,我们无法控制脑海中那不断浮现的脸孔以及所有逻辑性与非逻辑性的想法。我们时而安慰自己,时而谴责自己,更不时的劝自己不要多想,因为这不是放弃而是选择。我们会为自己找借口,希望能让那忐忑不安的情绪稍微舒缓,可是那样的情况坚持不了多久又会从来。
煎熬的一天以为就会这样就过去的,可是就连做梦都会有连贯性的情景重复着。那是煎熬吗?还是应该把它当成是种磨练,毕竟‘天将降大任于斯人也,必先苦其心志,劳其筋骨,空乏其身,行指乱其所谓,所以动心忍性,增益其所不能’,我是这么安慰着自己。
人会痛苦,追根究底就是感情,因为有七情六欲,因为贪嗔痴,才会让自己陷入无限痛苦的黑洞之中。
我们为爱付出但不是无私,我们期望能得到相同的回报。起初我们可能会天真的认为我们自己能不求回报的付出,时至今日,才知道那需要何等大的勇气与肚量。我们不是圣人,也需要对方给自己肯定,也许就只是简单的问候,却也能支撑我们坚持的走下去。
可是现实的残酷,一个人的付出不一定会的到相同的回报,即使在旁人看来是那么简单的小动作。因为在对方眼里无关紧要,所以就连这小小的问候也是极为稀有的回报。这时,才会问自己说,何时才能到达彼岸,何时才能赢得佳人回眸,你的痛苦与针扎的意义又有何在~
一直不够坚强的我,终于也完全崩溃。人生有很多选择,虽然每个选择所带来的结果都大不相同,但是既然决定了,就勇敢的走下去。人生的结果,没有走到最后一刻,谁也不能知晓。现在必须加油,加油再加油,感情就交由缘分来导航,我们还有日子要过,所以打起精神来吧!


Monday, 1 January 2018

一厢情愿

这几天心情都不是很好,明明已经下定决心要放下那还未开花的感情,但心里却一直盼着能有回转的余地。 时至今日,对方没有任何的回应。 自己明了,也是啊,一直以来都只是自己的一廂情缘,对方从头到尾都没有给过自己什么承诺或者示意她也有相同的感觉。
原来一厢情愿是这么回事,虽然明知是自己的一厢情愿,但心中那种空虚与刺痛的感觉让我好难受啊~

在感情的世界里,先认真的人注定是输家,我知道,但我不能控制,所以这一次我同样是输家~ 曾经我那么羡慕那段话:我们一直在一起,所以最后也想在你身旁。就算时间回不到最初,我也希望能走到最后。如今我只能静静的等待着‘她’的出现,但心中却已失去最初所拥有的那份完整的‘心’...

Thursday, 16 November 2017

The long post after 3 years~

Its been a long time~

From 2014 till 2017, many things happen...started a formal job, went through up and down/peak and more peak in audit life, buying car, staying outstation, oversea outstation, oversea trip and many others....life never stop and same goes to my blog~ Let's continued ~

Highlight of my Japan Hokkaido Trip

The beautiful sunflower from 展望花园 四季彩之丘, there is plenty of beautiful flower surrounded the hills. Definitely worth to travel and have a look for the amazing scene~


It's a family trip, first time travelling oversea with family (my mum) not just given my the opportunity to widen my point of view towards the mother earth, it also bring closer among our family relationship together~


I believe that this scene was the most frequent scene I had seen through out my travel in Japan. All the tourist had take out their phone to take the beautiful scene and don't forget to include themselves in the picture to keep as a memory. However, if you are too focus on photo session, you might miss out the beautiful mother nature secretly hidden some treasure through out the place, I would strongly advise you allocate you precious time to scout for the hidden treasure~ you will definitely surprise by the mother earth ...the place is just too beautiful~~










Of course, we don't miss out the food in Japan ^^
For those food hunter, you might be surprise that Japanese people are more concern about the healthcare issue by including all the human require nutrient/vitamin into their normal snacks, drinks and food. You can find out through the food packaging stating that the ingredient used inside and the contain of calories, vitamin, nutrient and others. It will be very helpful for those lady that wanted to calculate their daily calories consumption~ However, there is no need for that in Japan, since you arrive Japan, You MUST try their local dishes (i.e Ramen, Melon, Sushi, Beef, Pork rice, cheesecake and so so so many...) I am not able to show those food photo because I am too focus to enjoy the taste of the food and thus forget to take photo :p


I had keep reading and watching those motivational books and video, there is one quote I like the most and I would like to share out..."You do not come so far to fail, you came to SUCCEED!". Yes, many people are like me, trying so hard to try to achieve their goal, but before we did it, it would be a race of time...Indeed, our goal couldn't just achieve within a day (it depend what goal and how big your goal being set), thus, we must learn to remain patient before the target achieve. However, many people had given up despite the effort they put to achieve the goal...If you are struggle on the things you are currently doing/pursuing, try to recall back why you want to do this, if you still want to achieve for the same goal, don't give up, keep on doing, someday, before you notice, you will find out you had already achieve it...but not now, you will only be success if you don't give up!
Trust yourself, because I believe, Yes, You Can!


Saturday, 15 February 2014

After Chinese New Year

Time past fast, not even realize the Chinese New Year has come to an end...
Every year since we become more mature, our parents growth more older~ 

So, what we done today will affect our future. Our parents has spend most of their life to train us to become a better person, don't forget to thanks them for what they had already done for us.
It's never too late to show concern to them, because they always keep looking at us every time, just hoping we do the same to them...no matter how long we live, our parents will still feel we are too young to them ~ 

Friday, 17 January 2014

Result? erm....

I am studying ACCA,
result gonna out at 8th of February.
erm...I am worried, yes, I am...
I wonder how many candidate out there having the same feeling with me...
are they gonna be desperate to know their result...









or....are they gonna be same as me...










Oh, dear lord...please blessed me~

Tuesday, 29 October 2013

Please smile


Smilling isn't so hard,
have a cup of coffee and listen to your favorite music. 

Life are too short to live, be happy everyday and you will be amaze how wonderful your life would be. 
Sadness and regret won't make your life colorful but only dull. It's the day that we should start to letting go part of our life gone:
sadness ,let it gone;
regret, let it pass by;
jealous, put it away;
Stressor or whatever, just put it down for today and make only the smile and laughter exist for today. Believe it or not, you can make it, all you need to do is start now.... :) smile~